Small Gap Between EGO And SELFRESPECT!

Ego vs Self-respect

There is a small difference between self-respect and Ego. Self-respect (We, We, or after you) is a positive feeling whereas Ego (Me, Me, Only Me) is a negative feeling.

Unfortunately, the majority of people in the world have Ego but they think that it is Self-respect. 

Ego has created blunders in many lives because that is the main reason behind the breakups of couples, the divorce between wife and husband, clashes between father and son, and many more. 

Out of frustration, people show anger on their partners and throw dialogues like below. If you can't control such words, you may face disaster. 

You don't understand me anymore!

Does your work is more important than me?

I deserve to be treated better than this!

It's over between us, you will get a good partner!

You are the most egoistic person I ever saw in my life.

I can’t do this anymore.

Blah Blah Blah!

This Ego lies not only between couples but also with friends.

How to cut-off Ego?

Forgive! It is most important in every aspect of life. Greatest wars are with our own people, What if you win or lose? 

It's very easy to (win) break the trust (relationship), but very hard to rebuild it. Surely, there will be happy living with your loved ones if you lose!


Written by
Adithya Vecham


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